Hi Wonka, hello JonF - thank you for the advice. I know a lawyer that I like, so that should be easy to set up. The tone of "I am not going to take this lightly" is great.

Your responses are also a chance for me to be firm with W and set the schedule, instead of letting her steer the boat (a la Costa Concordia).

Most obliged -

L

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