Unlearning conflict avoidance 6

[LuckyLuke]

I can see that resisting her wish to D makes her push harder, that D seems like it will take away the pain she must have.

I can buy time, maybe, by saying I will deal with any D stuff when I am back from the States. She could, if she wanted, get the paperwork assembled while I am in the US, and give me a "welcome home, honey" present on my return.

Does it make sense to say "let's deal with this stuff when I am back, first"?

Thanks,

L