The only option I have for the papers is to sign or not. If I do not, then we get this 6 month reconsideration period, I think. It would also change the narrative (though this may well not be a good idea): W divorced me, not we each other.
W seems to want D immediately after daughter becomes 16.
Do differently? Do my very best, with help from my friends here, whom I would tell about the situation, to be a real man. Work on me and increasing my happiness. Protect my soul better from the pain. If it gives me a year total (not sure it does), then maybe get to enjoy another summer and harvest season in this beautiful spot.
L
M58, xW54 S22, D18 M 1984, D 2016 Living a new life.