Separated, D filed, possible emotional affair

[NTX_Dad]

Sorry JonF, I am holding back because I tend to get negative.

I see no signs of her wanting to "really" make the marriage work. Apparently she just signed a lease for an apartment, and she's having another male help her with stuff.

I still maintain she's trying to keep all doors open because it benefits her until she can make up her mind once and for all.

In some ways, it sounds like my sitch from two years ago. What I know now is that my W had a one time physical encounter, and for some reason I still don't know, it didn't go any longer, but they maintained a close relationship for many more months, until she finally saw that I was finally done and wanting to end the marriage. Once I finally went dark and she knew I was done, she made her mind up to come back.