Whether it feels like it or not this is your decision to either stand or not to stand. No one will judge you either way.
Originally Posted By: SFC_Swede
So, I still believe in this system, and the help that everyone provides to each other...but I think the road has come to an end for me. I need to get over her once and for all....and move on myself.
Want in on a little secret? This system, if you look at it from a high level, is about taking back your life after BD. It's about detaching from your S, it's about GALing, it's about meeting new people, and it's about diving into yourself and peeling back the layers. It's built to figure out what some of your issues are, maybe figure out the why's to those issues, and gives you tools to improve yourself so you can become the best person you can be. When you do all that there just might be a chance of saving your M. Sometimes it doesn't work out but that doesn't mean the road has come to an end.
From someone who's M didn't get saved I can tell you my life is much more fulfilling than it was while M'd. I could go on and on. Just know, if you figure out who you are and understand you make your own happiness then you will be just fine. It just takes some time but just stay true to yourself.
Personality is who the world sees, character is who you are
