lol NQ, I like your PMA on this smile It's true that once the OW will see that he's not got any money then she might dump him. This is the case with my H as well, he's got no money. He can't afford to D me, so how is he going to do all the couples stuff with her I do not know. Anyway more of that on my thread smile
She will get fed up of driving him everywhere as well and this is what I'm hoping. At the mo it's H that does all the driving around and I know he used to get fed up of me asking for lifts everywhere. Again I'll be posting more of this on my thread smile I'm not being obsessive about this, I'm just stating facts and assumptions. Well maybe I might be getting a little obsessive, but I think this is normal when you don't know what's really going on.
The affair never lasts when they leave you for someone else because it's like a rebound and normally couples wait for a year or two before they even think about having another serious relationship. I know that I'm not ready for another man just now. What I don't like is Sundays when you're on your own and you know everyone else is sitting down with their family for a Sunday dinner together. It's much better when I get to go out with my friend for a Sunday lunch, it breaks up the day smile


H47 me48
T22 M21
S20 - Got high functioning autism
3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her
11/2000 H moves back home
2/4/13 H moves out
H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!