Quote: "I finally got up my nerve to join because I had a message. Sorry it was not from you :>))"
Ya know, I've definitely felt this way when getting a message. But I sure wouldn't say that to anyone. It sounds whiny. She probably should have said something more confident????
Actually, Bets, I don't hear that as whiny. I think it's pretty flirtacious and many women don't have the guts to contact guys and basically say "you're hot!".
That being said - the "active person who likes to do lots of activities" is pretty lame - remains top be seen if she has any real substance.
