So H has hurt son again !!! He found txts between H and OW !!
Your S needs to quit snooping. Both of you know what your H is doing, there is no point in continued snooping. It's just going to hurt both of you and will give you no new or useful info.
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And telling him not to look wont work ! So what to do ?
Explain to him that his snooping is hurting not just him, but you too.
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So frustrated that I can't fix things . I am a fixer by nature !
Well most of us can relate. But you can change that "fixing" focus to you. MWD says in DR that you can effect change in your spouse by changing yourself. You CANNOT change your spouse directly. So work on you, become the spouse only a fool would leave. Strong, confident, self-sufficient. Right now you're coming off sounding very desperate and clingy, and that is NOT attractive to the WAS. Time to turn that around, you can do it!
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I practically threw myself at someone i know , who had given me the come on , , but then he backed off !! Imagine how rejected I felt !! God do I miss having sex !!! Just feel so alone !
Throwing yourself at anyone that looks at you is not going to bring you happiness and contentment. You're in a lot of pain right now, you've got to get your emotions under control before you think about introducing a new relationship into your life.
