Hi Bug, I don't think you are in the minority; I think we are just pointing out that even though it is hard, you do what you have to do. T's W uses it to get him to do what she wants which is to have her weekends free.
He works during the week so when else is he going to see them? T are you going to start taking days off in the middle of the week so you can have them then, instead of the weekend? Sorry if I missed that somewhere, all the descriptions got pretty convoluted for me.
I think the focus should be on what T (or anyone else) can or can't do around seeing his kids. What the spouse is or isn't doing with their time is nothing we, as the LBS, can control. If I were in that situation and wanted "me time" on the weekends I had the kids, I guess I would have to get a sitter.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
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