I have been thinking about what I posted yesterday and I think I should just let things be. The ball is in his court. He knows what the kids feel and are going through. He has to come to this on his own. I can support him if he asks for it (I doubt he will as long as OW around), and I will continue to support my kids.
I think this is a good idea.
Originally Posted By: bustingout
I think it would be easier if I could SEE the depression. The mind would play less tricks.
Do you really need to see it? You know its there. Kind of like at night, when you are stumbling around looking for the light switch, you know it is there. You trust that you will find it. The depression is there too. All the signs point to it.