Looking for New Options If H Wants Divorce

[MyNewStrength]

I do want my M, but it this point, it is hopeless because he attached to OW, even though he tells me that he is not with her. The VAR says otherwise. He is empathizing with her crying because she is also married and telling my H things about her H.

He remembers all of my faults, never counts his own, and believes that he can have a life with the OW. Does she not have shortcomings? Does H think about the long term impacts of seeing someone at work? This is a pattern with him. Can he not ask himself why does he do this? Why does he lie to his wife and supposedly "best friend"? Why does he protect OW interest instead of mine? They have lustful emotions for each other. When that dies, what happens next?

I don't know how to get him to stop taking divorce. He says we need to talk about divorce and that he does not want to think about us, because he does not want to be married to me.

How can I fight that?