I have been thinking about what I posted yesterday and I think I should just let things be. The ball is in his court. He knows what the kids feel and are going through. He has to come to this on his own. I can support him if he asks for it (I doubt he will as long as OW around), and I will continue to support my kids.
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home