Looking for New Options If H Wants Divorce

[Not Quitting]

You may be too deep into your emotion right now to answer this -

But do you want to save your marriage? If you do, I think it's good that you gathered all of your knowledge and information, but from what I read just on this thread you are so hurt and upset and angry. Personally I would take some time to do some self reflection and think about YOU.

I totally agree with Jersey. You need to give yourself some time to sort your emotions first. Emotional thinking isn't the smartest route - you're more likely to agree to something that you don't really want just to make yourself feel better quicker.