I get what everyone is saying. Some days and some weeks I have been better about leaving her alone than others. I have the added complication that we work at the same place, just down the hall from each other, and in the course of my work I must interact with her.
The hardest part is that marriage is suppose to mean we have someone to spend time with, share with, and lean on in times of need. To not be a part of their lives is the same as no marriage at all. Marriage fills a need that no GALing can replace.
