Have you talked to Gabe about it? You both are in such a unique position in that you are together just not remarried. You need to figure out what you want hon. Do you want to be remarried or just maintain the status que?

Decide and move on from there. This has been a big issue for you for a long time and no progress has been made. If you want to be married ask him. You will have your answer.

kat

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