Take the time you need to heal and process things, but don't let that become an excuse to wallow in sadness and stall your personal growth. Sometimes you will have to push yourself and go through the motions a bit to pick yourself back up (think of it as a mental battle versus your emotions), but it's natural to need some time to accept the recent confirmation of your reality with your W.
I am sorry to hear about your recent news, but it may end up being a positive step in your life. It could be the finality you need to move forward and become the man you want to be.
-PM
M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds
"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." -MLK Jr.
