Hey DH, Im no vet here but we seem to have similiars sitchs in some ways. Look, this is an epidemic anymore. I found this out when my W walked away in May. Courts are backed up and you will more than likely come across others going thru the same thing, both men and women. I had no idea how bad it was out there. Like you say your wife is stubborn so is mine. She is also being cold and distant with hardly any contact. Interesting that your IC said there were still feelings there as I have heard that prior. When they act so cold and distant they are trying to escape their own feelings. My WAW told me weeks ago she would get back to me on the matter of filing for divorce and I have heard nothing back yet. So when the vets say dont believe anything they say and only half of what they do it appears to be very true.
The past 5 months I find myself getting stronger about the sitch. I truly believe you can only do for you and the WAS has to deal with their own thoughts. And their thoughts aren't always as they say or appear. And yes, there is time when you just cant avoid the emotions but another truth is they get less and less as the days weeks go on. I will post something for you About WAW's I found to really help me get a grip....
