So my accountability friend yelled at me, and told me to quit assuming stuff. W said this guy wasn't her type before, that's why they could be friends.
I apologized to W and explained that I has just heard D10 say you two were in your bedroom. W said "dude" was putting together some piece of furniture, door was never closed, she was working on something else. I still think she is just taking advantage by saying he's a friend, even though she knows he has a little crush on her. Not very nice if you ask me.
She was pretty angry about the accusation, but accepted apology, and said she was very tired and asked me to call her tomorrow. She did say our Friday decision was still on, but I had to quit presuming. So I did about 36 hours dark! And our communication over this spanned about 10-15 minutes so not bad. Now I'm back to dark. I probably won't even call W tomorrow, maybe drop a text to let her know I'm really busy so can't call, which is gonna be true.
Bkeah, hate rollercoaster.
New goal too: no mentioning dude again, unless I find out proof of affair. W even told me that she would be willing to cut off contact with him if we reconciled, so I need to be the better choice even if it is platonic. If I freak out, just gonna push her away...
