Something does have to change. What is the only thing you have control over?
My question is, why did you continue the conversation after you said you'd get a sitter?
What was driving you?
Rock, I asked a question, and your answer was you thought you could talk her out of it. It seems you wanted to push your agenda on her, you wanted to be right. You could have stopped, knowing that discontinuing a conversation that's escalating doesn't mean you agree it just means you'll revisit later. She did what you thought was wrong anyway, so what did you gain?
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
