(BUt, I still will not settle for being Plan B b/c OW isn't working out for him right now!)
Of course not! No settling allowed. When the time comes, you make it clear what you expect in any new relationship with H. Either he steps up to the plate and scores or he doesn't. Personally, I think he will... eventually, and then you guys can work on building a real Marriage.
Isn't that what you came to this board to do?
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I don't know how to be happy w/o him and I don't really think I can ever be happy w him again. Where does that leave me...? I don't know.
I'll echo Spartans question a few posts back in different words.
Why are you not happy now? Why are you waiting on H or cute OM to make you happy?
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
