By the way...that last part is much much easier said then done. I have turned down dates, and another woman who showed a real interest in me (I friend zoned her) because I havent let go of the ex yet. And I dont think I will for awhile.
Me-45,W-36 M-12 yrs, T-15 years SS- 16 Nov 2003 Initial B date, 2-3 others since EA/PA OM 2003-2004 Reconciled 2004 May 2013 Final BD, W completely detaches W files D June 2013 I am moving out 26 July 2013