Thanks, I was hoping I was being reasonable.. I feel I just need the boundaries for my own peace of mind and comfort.

We do get CTC, right now it goes into our joint acct. We are going to have joint custody, so that will just be one more thing that we will have to split equally between us. The fact that we have a joint acct right now scares me a bit, and I feel like we may go into debt with this separation. I'm going back to work so that should help. Also, H will be finding a new place soon, so there will be that expense. Worries me a bit!

M: 8 yrs T:14
Twins:7 S:5
BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013
Mar/Apr/May: MC
June: "living in limbo"
Sept 12: H moves out
Oct 20: reconciling
Jan-Feb 2014:MC
Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.