Two Roads Diverged In a Yellow Wood... Part 2

[Not Quitting]

I agree with the others CP, there's nothing wrong with your boundaries.

If I remember right, you said a while ago that you're an Ontario girl as well. Do you get the Child Tax Benefit or your H? If it's your H and you're the one with custody,you're going to need to contact CRA - although you can't notify them of marital status change until you've been separated for 90 days - but I'd be contacting them to find out how to change who gets it. I was lucky in that I was already the one receiving the CTB so all I had to do when we first separated was change the bank account it's paid into. You can find all the information you need for that on the CRA website.