Sorry to hear of your separation. It sounds like you are setting the rules, though, which is good. Do you have another thread you are posting on? It'd be good to read more.
So even if W says that I am being unreasonable by not moving back downstairs, which I am not, I respond with something like "I have a perfect right to be up here, and anyway, you are the one driving this and so need to live with the consequences"?
L
M58, xW54 S22, D18 M 1984, D 2016 Living a new life.
