T1000, I like it because it is something to continue remembering what I need to do or think about. It isn't a game of chess, doesn't matter if she visits the boys, or does her own thing during the holidays. There is no points being scored. I also like the idea (the way it was written) that the WAS is done and nothing I do is going to make an impression to her now. I need to show more confidence and accept no expectations from her. A big one to learn there. It comes down to bit by bit, I am not doing as many things or thinking as many things, with the hope of R with the W. Decisions are being made for me, not for us.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
