Thing is here, I had sent a dayspring ecard almost three weeks ago for anniversary. They always return receipt to the sender which WAW knows about. And well, she never picked up the card. This is why I have been having such a difficult time deciding to say HB or not.
Really sorry she didn't pick up the card, little things like that do hurt. But try not to read anything into it, maybe she just hates those ecard links (I know I do).
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I am leaning towards being the bigger person and saying HB in an email. BUt I cant help to wonder how she might react if I did nothing like u said TTD, maybe she would see something else.
Whether you do it or don't do it, you've got to quit worrying about what her reaction is going to be. This isn't a chess game where every little move might lead to victory or defeat. She's a WAS, she's done. Nothing you do right now is going to make an impression on her right NOW (although it might later). You need to have confidence in yourself, do what you think is right and do it with NO expectations because you are confident that you are being true to yourself. If you send a message and you get no reply, you should still be able to think to yourself "well she's a WAS and she's following the WAS script, but what I did was the right thing and I'm glad I did it." Make sense?
