CP, I think your boundaries are more than reasonable. Don't feel bad. As soon as my wife had all her things that she wanted to take from our house I asked for the house key from her. I didn't want her coming and going as she pleased. Looking back I guess it was comforting knowing that she can't invade my personal space while she had her own place that I had no access to either.

It's good you have a weekend to yourself to think and collect yourself from this recent development.

Me:38, Wife:36
M:8
T:13
No kids
Bomb:3/10/13
W moved out:3/30/13
Started D paperwork: 10/14/13
D final: 12/30/13
To a future of love and happiness...