Hey Portia, you know what -- when you DO hear from your SO again, you can tell him that all of your changes have been good too And YOU will not be lying, like he probably was!
Are you doing any fun GAL activities besides sic-ing your cat on your poor parent? It sounds like a great idea to me, sort of a therapy cat!
Linda
Me 65, Ex 64 M 38 y 2 adult S, 4 G-Kids MLC 11/07 BD 12/09 D 3/14 Dating nice guy 7/14 Engaged to nice guy 12/17
And YOU will not be lying, like he probably was! 