I'm fairly new here, but will come from another point of view.
I have an MLC run a way. If he came to me and said, I would be fine with moving back home, but not to expect anything right away, I'm still confused about a lot of things...
I think I would be v e r y wary. It would sound to me as if he was settling for me. Do you have an IC? Are you ready ? What do you want? Has your W asked you how you feel about it?
Just hearing ..."I would be fine..." says to me she is still not sure.
Don't get me wrong, but I can remember having all sorts of feelings during my 31 years plus 3 more dating. There were times when I was not "in love", had "could care less" feelings and even felt hate. I never asked him to leave. I knew they were within me, and it was my place to resolve them. She seems a bit scared, and somewhat restless,so I would go very slow.
Remember you also have a lot of feelings that have been bottled due to DBing and your IC may help you with those as well.
Mostly, good luck! This is a wonderfully BIG step in the right direction!
Formerly Workinprogress H :55 M :over 29 yrs. Together : 33 D : college D : adult BD and left : May 2013 Separated Experimenting/Replay
