Me 10 months on. Positve agenda.

[hotwheelsaust]

T1000, I have been thinking about the transfer not happening for quite a while. And I know I cannot control the situation, that is accepted. But I have and still continue to look at my life and what needs to be done if I don't transfer.
If I don't transfer:
Negatives:
* Struggle to live with the flatmate that has been moved here. No big issues, but he is a very demanding, always right type of person who jumps into conversations and and I am always wrong.
* I will need to decide and do something about all our (W and I)furniture in this place. The flatmate doesn't want the whole house and garage stockpiled with my stuff as he is entitled to half his share of the house. Fair call, just cannot do anything about my belongings due to the solicitor. Not to mention I really don't want to sell anything, I want to keep it for when I move home. It would be a major struggle to store the belongings (again, being a mining town, everything is exaggerated pricing). I also could not afford to move out of the government house, due to high rents, again because of the mining prices. I pay $85 per fortnight, minimum rent on a 2 bedroom townhouse is around $500 per week.
* I will still have the holidays only to see my boys, and my only form of accommodation is with my Mum, in the tiny 2 bedroom retirement village.
* I still cannot guarantee or get confirmation of how long I could be here.
* I would still see the W at times ie bump into her.

Positives:
* I have a job and a wage coming in. A job in the field I want to do.
* I have cheap rent, that allows me to pay the mortgage and bills easier.
* I am still in the same area as the W.
* It will allow me to be able to have more of a getting away holiday, when I get my holidays. ie. go overseas
* If I still have the house/investment property, it will allow me to pay them off a bit quicker.

TTD180, won't be much going on at my place in the holidays, unless I move back into my place. All of our previous holiday stuff has been at the MIL or SIL place while we were down on holidays. Since I will be staying at my mum's, there is no room for much visiting and both boys really don't like to visit her. No real issues, she just wasn't a big part of their growing up, so they don't make her a big part of their life.
I cannot visit the boys, as the youngest stays with the SIL and the oldest is in share accommodation and is rarely there, he is also at the SIL's a lot.
If I move back, I will be planning a lot of going on stuff.