Guess I belong here now...

[RosaLinda]

Hey SweetRed, just catching up! I would adore working in a library. Although if you are working there, reading the whole time is probably frowned upon! Sounds like you are really busy right now, good for you. I'm jealous not only of your MS in library science, but also that you got to see Joel Osteen, I really admire him, and Victoria too!

I'm sorry about that woman from FL coming up and maybe renting an apt in your H's complex. Besides being a planner, it sounds like she's a schemer, and the sort who bulls her way thru to get what she wants. Being D does not change the love or the pain. Red, I just had a consultation with a divorce lawyer. She told me that she lived thru her H's MLC for four years, then finally divorced him. She said that about 2 years later, her H sudenly woke up and went back to his old self, and wanted to reconcile with her, but she was too afraid that he would start another affair. So they both moved on. But she says she regrets giving up in the first place to this day, and really regrets not at least trying to reconcile.

So...I guess you never know what the future may bring. You keep being fabulous you, and you will someday get the love and wonderful relationship you deserve, whether with your x or with some better guy!