Glad to hear you're a lot better with the sitch It's something that is going to go round and round your head until her b/day. Stop stressing about to send or not to send that is the question You'll only make yourself ill Since you first asked the question, count up the number of replies. If there's more send her an email then do that and vice versa. The fact that she didn't acknowledge the anniversary card though speaks volumes to me I think you've got to keep yourself busy. Plan loads of things to do between now and Weds and her b/day may go by without you even thinking about it! You might even be too busy that you "forget" her b/day. Also think about the consequences, what's the worse that could happen if you send her one or don't send her one? She may acknowledge it and say thank you, but then when it comes to your b/day and she "forgets", you'll be bitterly disappointed. I know I was when H didn't even acknowledge my b/day at all! I even saw H on my b/day and I had to remind him what day it was!
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
It's something that is going to go round and round your head until her b/day. Stop stressing about to send or not to send that is the question 
