Thanks for jumping in here AS. And of course my ole bud TTD. Thing is here, I had sent a dayspring ecard almost three weeks ago for anniversary. They always return receipt to the sender which WAW knows about. And well, she never picked up the card. This is why I have been having such a difficult time deciding to say HB or not. Because since that time I have gone dark and it's now been 3 weeks since she responded to my email of the same time frame. I am leaning towards being the bigger person and saying HB in an email. BUt I cant help to wonder how she might react if I did nothing like u said TTD, maybe she would see something else.
The only thing is she has been staying n/c also except for the email about letting me know on the "matter of filing for divorce. (she hasnt said anything since) So we are now both definately in the no contact mode. Still find it unreal how she is doing this but......I have accepted it and doing alot better with it. Not great but definately better....
