Thanks chl. I am doing ok, well as best as can be expected in this situation! I am going to try to keep busy and keep with my GAL's.
H took the kids away this weekend to his brother's for a bbq and to visit for a couple of days. It is kind of a relief to have him gone, as I am getting overwhelmed when he is here. It also gives me the chance to get some things done around the house, like looking through the children's homework and field trip forms, etc, and I can have some time to think about how this separation is going to play out.
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.