The weird continues. Now that I'm COMPLETELY done, and ready to move on...

W told me the guy I suspected of her having an EA with is going to come help her move, although it's him, his brother, sister, and a couple of other friends. W is friends with his sister. She has continued to be in very minor contact with him - although my suspicions were raised, it would be an odd affair to barely speak to someone, and never see in person. She has sworn to me and to her closest friends that he is just a friend. She said she has never discussed dating, never considered a romance, never touched him. I think she's just taking advantage of him maybe having a little crush on her, and using him.

So, I told her I thought it was inappropriate; even if there is absolutely nothing going on between them, and when there are very close male friends that she didn't ask, it looks suspicious. I left it at that; my "accountability" friend said if she had someone waiting then she would be running for divorce not thinking about dismissing it, and asking me to come over, etc. He thinks that it's a bit of a "test" to see if I act stupid.

I had to drive right by W's new place yesterday so I told her I'd drop the package off she got in the mail (see above). When I got there, she was there, and asked me to come in. I took her stuff in, and she hugged me and was joking around with me.

While I'm at her apartment, she joked that since the closet was way smaller, she'd only be able to give me like one foot if we "figured things out and moved in together again". She said that D10 and D13 could share a room, even commented that the one room had two closets, but joked that might be more drama than we'd want. She then kinda caught herself and was like "Well, I'm getting way ahead of myself."

She told me she loved me and said, "Hey, can I take until Friday since we've been talking and spending a lot of time together? I really want to think things over and I want to do it with a clear head." The step-kids begged to stay with me, so I let them.

I'm sure she's excited to not be sharing a house anymore - it was cramped and loud and annoying, so she'll actually get to think.

But still, sometimes, you just want to be done just so you're not confused.