She CHOSE to move an hour and a half away; what did she expect? What she really wants is for you to take them every weekend and she doesn't stop to think that you are working 5 days a week so you aren't 'getting a break' either.
As for her refusing to drive, Sandi2 is right so stick to your guns. There is no reason she should not be doing half of the driving. She doesn't want to do it and she knows you are thinking if she tells you no, what are you going to do about it. Tell her if you have to do all of the driving you can only have them 2 weekends a month.
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I will help her find insurance that's not a problem, 10-15 mins online should do it.
I'm sorry, how can she be 31 and not know how to get car insurance or be able to figure it out on a computer. I would not do it, I would tell her to call companies and get quotes or google it and get them. From reading your posts, it sounds as if she is manipulating you all around. Obviously that may be wrong but it sure sounds like it.
You are making so many positive changes, if you can learn to recognize when/how she manipulates you there can be even more.
M 46 H 44 D 12 S 8 M 9 T 11 BD 2/15/13 "Makes sense to stay together" 5/12/13 Agree we are 'healing' 7/13 Definitely Piecing 9/13
