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I'll have to check out Flylady. And if I could put all of H's stuff in one bag I'd be happy. He only took minimal with him when he moved out because it was at that time only a "trial" so now I've got boxes of his stuff to deal with.

I need to declutter just about every room in the house - toys that S13 has outgrown, stuff my dad brought with him when he moved back in, stuff I shipped over from the UK that is still in the shipping crates, etc, etc, etc.


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Originally Posted By: Not Quitting

So depending on which time zone you’re in, it’s most likely after 9 – guess your preferred task is checking DB forum right now smile LOL. If it weren't for checking up on the forum, there are times when I’d have nothing else to do.


Yeah, I'm a night owl, and likely to pop in here any old time. In the bad old early post-BD days I was checking here constantly. It was DB Forum | FaceBook | DB Forum | Facebook - repeat until exhaustion. smirk Now I only check once a day. Or twice. Or three times. Or.... wink


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Originally Posted By: MileHigh
In the bad old early post-BD days I was checking here constantly. It was DB Forum | FaceBook | DB Forum | Facebook - repeat until exhaustion. smirk Now I only check once a day. Or twice. Or three times. Or.... wink

LOL, you and me both smile. This forum has been my lifeline since I discovered it. Just wish I'd found it sooner.


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lol I'm like that as well smile When I've been busy during the day I'll check out DB forum as soon as I can and then catch up with FB. It's 4.20pm now and I've still not checked FB!
I told my son that I'll make him some room in his chill out room (that used to be the 3rd bedroom until H took the bed!) for his guidebooks for his games and his gaming magazine. He's going to be expecting me to have done that for him by the time he gets home, oops smile I have been busy though smile


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Movie date with Friend-W. That's my new nickname for her on here. Maybe I can get FW on the official acronym list. wink

Then tomorrow, the new book store downtown. Maybe I should take her to dinner at the restaurant where flirty waitress works. whistle


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Don't use the acromyn FW, you'll confuse me, lol. I'm easily confused you know smile Have fun tonight smile Maybe you should take her to the restaurant, she might get jealous smile
You've just reminded me, I've just decluttered the shelves in my son's chill out room smile yayyyy! Just need to dust it down now and bring in his guide books and magazines. I was sent out as he was in the middle of a game and didn't like to be disturbed, lol. Blinking teens!


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You know where mothers stand when it comes to teenagers. The help is not to get in the way of gaming! Did you have to set the timer to get started on that project? wink


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Originally Posted By: MileHigh
Maybe I should take her to dinner at the restaurant where flirty waitress works. whistle


Do you know my H? LOL smile.

Years ago H was out on a Friday night at a pub with the boys. One of the waitress kept flirting with him to the point of giving him her phone number (he told me about it and gave me the bit of paper as well). The next day he decided to take me in there for lunch. Same waitress was working again and started flirting with him again until he introduced her to his very pregnant wife. She was so not amused! LOL


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lol NQ smile Just to let you both know that my decluttering mission is complete and I even managed to get my teen son to help as well smile He can be just like Kevin the teenager at times, lol. What do you mean you've never seen it? lol. Another one for you to google smile


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3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her
11/2000 H moves back home
2/4/13 H moves out
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Originally Posted By: MileHigh
You know where mothers stand when it comes to teenagers. The help is not to get in the way of gaming! Did you have to set the timer to get started on that project? wink


lol MH ,sorry I missed this post. No I didn't set the timer lol, I just got on with it smile Amazing I know! It was just a task that I wanted to do so there was no need. You and NQ motivated me to get my a$$ into gear, lol. I've also cleared the bags from the front of the bookcase, again with no timer! lol. I may need the timer to declutter the books though wink


H47 me48
T22 M21
S20 - Got high functioning autism
3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her
11/2000 H moves back home
2/4/13 H moves out
H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
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