I agree with no expectations. I sent H a birthday card that I'd made myself so it didn't cost me anything but time. I got nothing from him on my birthday, I even had to remind him it was my birthday! I was very hurt!
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!