Good for you Luke! Start doing! Now the real test will be if she challenges you. You have to look her in the eye and say "I am sleeping upstairs. You can do what you want, but that's what I'm going to do"
In the eye with confidence -- that's what she wants from you. You are not defying her, you're giving her what she wants.
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015