She thought the same about you, but you've proven her wrong haven't you?
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It's fine if we don't R.
Good thought, once you get to the point where you realize you will have a great life ahead whether your W is part of it or not, well then your DB'ing has been a success.
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Time to move on with my life just as co-parents and nothing more.
Absolutely. That's not to say you shouldn't keep some ray of hope alive though. You can move on in life and still leave the door open just a teensy crack in case your W knocks.
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Only some thoughts about the kids really put a slight dent in these.
Totally natural. Most of us would do anything to give our kids a united family and home. Unfortunately that's not just our decision to make.
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It doesn't bother me. I find myself walking along and just smiling for no reason. I see new pics of the kids I have put up around the house, I wink at them, smile and carry on.
