Two Roads Diverged In a Yellow Wood... Part 2

[chasingpavements]

Thanks FastCars.. I am just not sure though, since he didn't really move out on his own free will. He said he wanted to separate and I more or less told him that I would like him to find another place to stay. I think I will have a talk with him tonight about boundaries and stuff like that.

You are right that it's probably a lot more complicated than I know. I did talk to my mortgage broker, who is looking into things for me. I think money spent on a lawyer would be worth it in our case. I would at least feel more comfortable that everything was split fairly. I hope overtime is split. We have been relying on his overtime for the past year, as he convinced me to stay at home with the children and we needed that extra money.