Is there's anything left of everything we had...

[Not Quitting]

My H was supposed to have the talk last Sunday but didn't. He says he'll do it this weekend. If he doesn't I'm going to. S13 has been reassured often that it's not his fault and that it's not due to anything he did or didn't do, that both his dad and I still love him and always will, but that we just can't live together right now.

Overall, S13 has been really mature about the whole thing and doesn't seem to be overly fazed. He has mentioned not being able to have as many things (yes, he's spoiled, but definitely not allowed to be a brat LOL) as he used to, but I've told him that I'm looking for a better paying job so that I can still buy him stuff once in a while and more importantly so that we can get into our own place instead of living with my dad. I think its been a bit easier on him because the two boys across the treet that he spends a lot of time with have just seen their parents split up, so he knows he's not the only one it's happening to.