I agree adinva My H said he'll have the talk with my son when he saw him but that was two weeks away and I felt he needed to know straight away. I told my son basically that dad had left me as he doesn't love me anymore, but he still loves you (his son). That's all I said, I didn't go into any long explanations I also said to my son, don't blame yourself because I remember when my parents split up I was a rebellious teen and I felt it was all my fault. I carried that guilt around with me for years.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
My H said he'll have the talk with my son when he saw him but that was two weeks away and I felt he needed to know straight away. I told my son basically that dad had left me as he doesn't love me anymore, but he still loves you (his son). That's all I said, I didn't go into any long explanations 