DFE, I think you're doing the right thing, and if anything, you need to distance from him as much as you can, which is to say pursue the LRT. If he's not in the marriage, he's out. If he wants to be out, show him what that looks like -- no hugs!
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015
