His teeth are okay. He said the same thing...hasn't had a cavity since high school. I asked my dentist about this since I've run into other guys with bad teeth. He seemed concerned about all kinds of things (gum disease, plaque buildup, oral cancer). Car guy has no health insurance so he doesn't go the doctor either. Just different values. For instance, I don't think I'd be tearing it up on a dirt bike without health insurance, but that's his choice.
He actually came out and told me he hadn't seen a dentist in four years. That wasn't the deal breaker. The deal breaker is that he has no goals, no retirement, no savings, etc. Yet, he has an iPhone, iPad, new computer, just bought a new mountain bike (already had one) and I'm about as frugal as you can get. We couldn't be more different in that aspect. I can learn to spend some of my saved money (and I have), but how does he ever retire and play the great golf courses around the country/world with me?
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10
