I understand about the whole money downer thing. Hopefully this weekend will go well for you with him.
Keep in mind that you're still making progress but you cannot control the pace of things, just your attitude, actions, and reactions.
Money is one of those subjects that can cause things to go sideways fast but it is also a topic that cannot be swept under the rug considering the circumstances. That's a judgement call you your part right now.
You may want to make a list of the big bills that need to be addressed for your clarity and then you're ready to address them when the time is right.
Hang in there and be patient!
Me: 42 WAW: 37 Kids: 0 Separated: 06APR13 M:7 Years, T:10 years WAW states she wants to "move on": 01JUL13 "Courage is the standing army of the soul which keeps it from conquest, pillage, & slavery."