His brother and sister both have a small place, and I imagine that they don't want him to stay there long. You are right, it was his decision to leave. I feel like I am worrying about him too much, that I should just tell him to figure it all out himself!! No reason why I should have to. It bothers me to see his clothes in the closet as well. I want his stuff out. I like the idea of setting a deadline to get the stuff out, and we have a garage as well, I hadn't thought of that!! wink


M: 8 yrs T:14
Twins:7 S:5
BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013
Mar/Apr/May: MC
June: "living in limbo"
Sept 12: H moves out
Oct 20: reconciling
Jan-Feb 2014:MC
Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.