If he's staying with his brother or sister, why can't he keep his clothes there. I hope you've stopped doing his laundry. Remember it was his decision to leave, not yours.

It still bothers me everytime I open the bedroom closet and see the clothes he left behind. I've kind of learned to ignore the books and gadgets that are still at the house so that they don't bother me any more. But I'm going to have to set a deadline for them to be removed or he'll just drag it out as long as possible. Once the deadline is set, if anything of his hasn't been removed by that date I will be boxing it up and sticking it in the garage for him, which might actually encourage him to pick it up as the garage has a small leak.


Both 50
S14
M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)

ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks