2old, although I initially said you should send her an email with just happy b/day on it, not that you've said that you're trying to maintain n/c and going dark then I take that back I wouldn't send her any email on her birthday. Actually this might make her sit up and take notice as you are doing the complete opposite (180) on what she would expect you to do. She will probably expect you to send her an email with happy birthday on it, but you're going to do a 180 on this. This will surprise her and she MAY contact you after this.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!