I agree with NQ here. I get a similar roller coaster with my H, he's up and down all the time. I bet you're wondering what is he playing at. I know I would be. When your H is tired, try and say every time I don't want to talk to you when your tired, drunk, in a bad mood, etc. Talk to me when you're in a better mood and you can talk to me like a civilised adult. I know you've already been doing this, but reinforce it every time he speaks to you in that way Keep on doing what you've been doing, you're doing really well
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!